Thursday, May 13, 2010 @ 4:41 AM
Let me tell you a story
There's this couple who were together for 6 years.One day, the guys started to treat the girlfriend differently.
Slowly, the girl broke it off with him when she realised that the guy was hankering over a new girl he met.
That guy just started to blame the girl and said it was her fault etc etc, and didn't even admit to liking a new girl and stuff like that.
6 years, poof, just like that.
The disgusting part was that the girl the guy was hankering after knew about this guy and all the shit he did, yet she still got together with him.
I pity the girl, but I will not be sympathetic.
You may be really happy now, but time is going to show how conniving lies can be and maybe, just maybe if you're lucky, you'll be able to catch a glimpse of the truth behind his lies and escape.
If you get married, good for you girl, just wait a little while more and forever be in doubt that one day, maybe after 6 or 10 years, he's going to come home to you but be thinking about the new girl he met somewhere.
I don't care what men say when they get into trouble or deep shit to cover their asses.
Most of the things I always hear are:
" I MEANT IT THEN, BUT THINGS ARE DIFFERENT, YOU CAN'T EXPECT THINGS NOT TO CHANGE"
" YOU'VE CHANGED, YOU'RE THE ONE THAT CAUSED ALL THIS"
The WORST kind of men are the ones who are the assholes, YET they are in denial and automatically zoom in to try and pick at your flaws by saying stuff like,
" YOU THINK YOU'RE DAMN GOOD? PLEASE, YOU ARE NOTHING. YOU WERE A SHITTY GF"I've had the unfortunate luck of actually dating a guy that happened to fall under the "in denial" category.
We were supposed to remain friends, but I guess he didn't want to because the mere sight or mention of me would just remind him of what a shitty person he is, inside and out.
So to cope with that guilt or to make himself feel better, the mechanics of getting new friends or stuff is in line.
It happens to all of us.
You know the feeling?
When you get tired of old friend because they used to know you and all your shit but the new friends you made don't rag you on your shit you did and stuff?
So, is that supposed to make you into a better person?
That article, 'You are who your friends are', does ring true to a certain extent.
I have witnessed idiots who are like lambs. Using the guise of "just because their friends are doing it, why can't they? " and proceed to fuck themselves up.
HOWEVER, I too have witness people of strong moral character.
Who refuse to bow down to stupidity.
Who knows what the hell is RIGHT or WRONG, and knows how to look deep beneath the facade and know how to handle situations.
These people are rare and few.
Yet, people just don't seem to want to be those kind of people, the good kind.
Ah C'est la vie.
I would seriously like to know one day, what was going through the minds of all these people. The ones that don’t give a damn about people they hurt and are always in self denial.
Sure people deserve to be happy, how sure are you about that for yourself?
